Essays, observations, and principles drawn from decades of advising people through difficult conversations and high-stakes situations.
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How I think about conflict
Essays, observations, and principles drawn from decades of advising people through difficult conversations and high-stakes situations.
Escalation is rarely about what people are arguing about. It's about what's underneath it.
Why do intelligent people make poor decisions when the stakes are personal? Explore how emotional pressure narrows perspective and how to think more clearly.
Conflict often impairs judgment before it becomes obvious. Discover why gaining clarity before escalation helps preserve perspective, improve decisions, and protect your options.
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People often seek therapy, mediation, or litigation when conflict escalates. This article explores the overlooked space where clarity and better judgment come first.